You can find my queer love column for THEM here and all my writing for Jezebel here. Other selected clips below!
My Relationship Guru is a 14-Year-Old Girl, The New York Times
No sex, please. They’re gay., The Washington Post
Digital
TV & FIlm
Cats Isn’t Nearly as Horny and Gay as It Should Be, Jezebel
RuPaul’s Drag Race Has a Race Problem, Slate
Netflix’s Queer Eye Reboot is an Antidote to Our Culture of Toxic Masculinity, Harper’s Bazaar
Survivor Has Always Been a Show About Who Can Be the Shittiest Person, Jezebel
Queer love stories often leave sex to the imagination. ‘Rocketman’ doesn’t—and that’s progress., The Washington Post
‘Call Me by Your Name’ is a gay love story. The film should have included gay sex., The Washington Post
Food
Right Now Is the Absolute Best Time to Enjoy a Walk and Snack in San Francisco, Eater
This $5 Deli Sandwich Is One of San Francisco’s Most Delicious Hidden Treasures, Eater
13 Most-Loved Dive Bars Across San Francisco, Eater
pop culture & cultural commentary
Why I won’t be watching the Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show this year, The Washington Post
If Cynthia Nixon Really Is a Miranda, She’s the Politician We Need, THEM
How being on ‘RuPaul’s Drag Race’ changes a queen’s love life, The Washington Post
dating & Relationships
When my date said ‘I don’t want a relationship,’ I tried to change his mind, The Washington Post
When I came out as gay, it took my dad years to understand, The Washington Post
What a leather convention can teach everyone about sex and consent, The Washington Post
humor
I am a Liberal Comedian and I Am Ready to Perform Ally-ship By Calling Conservatives Gay Every Chance I Get, McSweeney’s
Help! I can’t stop falling in love at the farmers market, The Washington Post
‘Twas the night before a millennial Christmas, The Washington Post
A millennial breakup in 23 steps, The Washington Post
Is Pete Buttigieg Gay Enough? If He Can Answer These Questions, He Just Might Be, Points in Case
21 Clever Ways to Hide Your Budding Homosexuality While Home for the Holidays This Year, Points in Case